trauma therapy for sensitive, people-pleasing women

Inner Healing for Lasting Change

available in draper & online throughout utah

Specializing in IFS & EMDR Therapy

Feel calmer, more confident, & kinder to yourself

Does any of this sound like you?

sensitive

You are thoughtful, highly aware, & feel your emotions deeply

conflict avoider

You avoid conflict as much as possible & try to keep the peace

Perfectionistic

You consider yourself a perfectionist and like doing things the “right way”

Compassionate

You are highly empathetic and care deeply about your relationships

People-pleaser

It’s difficult to speak-up for yourself & you strive not to upset or disappoint anyone

self-critical

You have high standards for yourself and criticize your mistakes

You want to be thriving in life, but right now…

You’re struggling to feel confident. Whether it’s anxiety or past trauma - it’s difficult to feel calm and kind to yourself.

You are intelligent and self-aware, but feel stuck despite doing all the “right” things to feel better.

  • Your mind won't shut-off. The racing thoughts, trouble sleeping, and tightness in your chest can make it hard to relax. You might feel on-edge and have low patience.

    You try to find solutions, but end up feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.

    You can get stuck scrolling on your phone, or trying to stay busy - using anything to distract from what's going on in your head.

  • You feel things deeply, but sometimes your emotions seem overwhelming. You are good at distracting or disconnecting from them for a while, but eventually they show up again- and usually feel stronger than before.

    You worry that your emotions are “too much” for others, and feel frustrated when you can’t control them.

  • You strive to do things perfectly, and feel self-critical when you make mistakes. You feel guilty and ashamed when things go wrong.

    It’s easy to blame yourself and feel overly responsible for problems in your relationships.

  • You've gone through something painful and don't feel the same anymore.

    You might know what triggers the pain from your past, but you feel stuck in changing your response. It’s frustrating, because it feels like you “should know” how to fix this.

  • You don't want to create conflict or problems, so you try to please everyone. It's difficult to speak-up for your own needs and be assertive.

    You might feel guilty, and like you're a bad person when you try to set boundaries with difficult people.

There is nothing wrong with you - you’re coping the best you can

Hi, I’m Haley

I specialize in trauma therapy for sensitive women, who feel stuck in people-pleasing, perfectionism, and big emotions.

I help my clients authentically connect to parts of themselves, so they feel calmer, more able to express their needs, and genuinely confident.

My clients walk away from therapy feeling less overwhelmed, more in-tune with their emotions, and believing that they deserve to speak-up, and be authentic in their relationships.

Most women I work with have already tried coping skills & talking about their problems. They’re ready to go deeper and heal the root of their symptoms.

how I can help

I specialize in therapy that goes deeper, for more transformation.

My approach goes beyond talking & coping skills.

I use IFS therapy & EMDR therapy to help you get to the root of your pain & better understand your inner experience, so you can feel calmer.

  • Get to the root of what's making you feel anxious, so you can address it directly, and feel more calm.

    Learn more about therapy for anxiety here.

  • The painful experiences you've been through don't have to define you. You can process what happened in a safe environment and reconnect with yourself.

    Learn more about trauma therapy here.

  • Learn how to identify what’s going on with you, so you feel more confident navigating your relationships.

  • Do you struggle with self-care, people-pleasing, and perfectionism? Learn how to set boundaries, take better care of yourself, and reduce the self-criticism.

Some helpful thoughts:

You are likely a good fit for my approach if…

You want to go beyond talking about your problems and actually change how you react to them

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You are ready to invest in yourself & are willing to put in the time and effort it takes to create change

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You care about the experience, not just the end result

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You want to understand yourself better, feel more balanced, and feel open to connecting to your emotions

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You might not be a good fit for my approach if…

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You are looking for a quick fix & only want to vent about your problems

You are not ready to commit the time & effort it takes to address your goals

You are in immediate crisis or actively struggling with substance abuse

You are not ready to explore your emotions, body sensations, or past experiences

How it works

1

Fill out the contact form & schedule a free 15-minute consultation.

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I'll answer your questions, learn more about your goals, & share what options are available.

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We will decide if working together is the right for your goals & schedule your 1st session

Click this link to fill out the contact form.

You don’t have to keep pushing through anymore.